So I lost lydia in riften. I was trading my other follower uthgerd out for lydia after my wedding and then i fast traveled back to whiterun where i live and she was missing. The only load i could go back to is fron over 15hrs ago and 5 levels. I have tried everything from check the hall of the dead to going to jail, its been an in game week. Someone must know how to help, im still a low level so i need a follower for the big quests.