Im a real idiot...been playing this game over 160 hours and i cant bring myself to play as a mage. I kinda do soem lite RP so ill do stuff that my "charector" will do but wont do things that dont fit. So playing as assassins and warriors, to me i thought there was no reason whatsoever to do the Mages guild...... im an idiot. it dawned on me in my travels that granted i have a magic bar thats at 100 and cant cast a majority of the "spells" in the game..bc i dotn really have to. I can speak and a enemy gets blasted with frost or fire. I cant conjure up daera no..but i can summon dragons and nord hero spirits. I cant shoot lightning from my finger tips but i can shout and have anythign and everyoen hit by lightning in a mile radious. I cant cast a spell to myself invisible or see where everyoen is......but i cant shout and make myself into a etheral and see life forms.

All this requires no 'magic" at all, pretty much everythign the mages can do with thier magic i can do just as well if not alot better with just my voice.......so ya now i can fit why my "rawrior" swinging his 2hander everywhere can become the Top Dog at the mages college.

Yes for those who have come up with this assumption well before me, let me repeat myself...im an idiot lol.
hopefully this post will help any others who was in the same boat as myself.

"Enchanting is one of the few services that keeps us in touch with the rest of Skyrim." Perhaps you big Conan the Barbarian wants to add some "spark" to his swing?