Hii long story short, ive never played elder scrolls before. i bought this game 2days ago and its pretty awesome..im on level 3 and im a high elf..

either my combat svcks or my character, but i can only take 2 hits and have to dish out around a thousand hits for an imperial guard to die.. i use an iron mace, iron shield, iron armor, imperial boots and helmet and everything else.. even my magic is poor

anyways i had a bounty on my head and because its autosaved in jorrvaskr house im kinda in trouble. ive got about 11guards after me and keep spawning and dying within about 30seconds, lol.. seriously need help

also when i try to travel really far, some orc or any bandits etc kick my ass and im pretty much useless

why am i fighting so poorly and what can i do to impove?..

hope someone can help, despite the extremely long description, lol.. been on here for an hour trying to figure a way out

You shouldn't piss off guards until you are powerful enough...

But Skyrim, just like most TES games are "Play how you want" games. Even though a High Elf is typically better suited for Magic you can play as a heavy-armor mace and shield user.

Here's the best advice I've heard: Keep focused. If you go out and play around with too many different skills, you'll be really bad at them all, but skilled in everything to a point. But on the flip side, if you use a focused style, you could rock at Destro,Resto, and Alteration and literally be fine. But then, you might want to pick locks, and enchant... So Keep focused, but don't forget to explore your options, and find a good, happy medium where you can excel. Oh, and if you need, you could turn your difficulty down.

improved your 1h skills and block skills, when u lvl up use ur perks in those trees, with stats ill go with stamina and health.

afterwards ill lvl heavy armor, and smithing this will give u better gear, with more armor, and better weapons for more dmg also lets u improve any weapons or gear