I went to that "can you run it" site to see how well skyrim will run on my laptop. On minimum it will run well, but on recommended the only problem was my video card. What confused me is that my card meets the video RAM, and both shaders needed. I have a GeForce GT 230M. Will i be able to play smoothly? or will it be lagging?

You went to an ignorant, useless web site first, then you created this totally unnecessary duplicate thread of yours.

http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1253771-unofficial-will-my-pc-run-skyrim-thread-52-w-hardware-guide/page__st__200