She's already sworn to serve you. Tell her that includes in bed and you're done, unless you want some kind of formal reciprocal commitment and/or legitimacy?
My Lydia has disappeared for multiple days at a time twice so far. The first time I thought she had somehow died permanently, but she showed up again eventually, no clue what happened. The second time... she hasn't come back from yet and it's been a few days, I'm feeling pretty nervous about it.
Cos she's sneaking about with me m8 - sorry!
No in all seriousness, bought the guidebook today and YES she can be married apparently!!
I am wearing the amulet but she ain't playing ball yet another lady who I had a fist fight with in the back of the bar has already noticed I'm wearing the amulet and declared herself 'available' for me - trouble is I just don't fancy her.
I'll keep trying........