is there anyone else who doesnt give a crap about lore? im just in it for the gameplay.. quests and dungeons. all i want to do is run around and kill and loot everything. i couldnt give a crap about what a Nord is.. or which idiot ran tamriel 2000 years ago!

Sounds like a really dull way to approach this game to me. Nobody forces you to enjoy the lore (or story) ofc, but it`s essential to this game and builds up the story of the virtual world around your character. I mean, sometimes I even read the books that you can find in the game.
Without the lore the gaming experience would be quite grey, I don`t know if I would give enough value to a game that to me is only about quests and dungeons in order to invest my precious time into it.
Lore adds up to immersion of a real adventure in a real world (well of course Skyrim isn`t real, but makes it feel more real when you know the backgrounds).
Story, atmosphere, contact to the world within the game, lore etc are all important factors.
Sooo a big disagree from me.