Women trouble "falling into the friend zone" : Othor Games

» Sat May 12, 2012 8:22 pm

Its actually on urban dictionary in relation to this forum.

Just Ask Her Out.

Ah thanks. And yeah my advice would be JAHO. Either way it will be off your mind.

» Sun May 13, 2012 9:16 am

There is no such thing as the "friend zone". If there is, it's not impossible to get out. But in most cases, it's not that the girl doesn't like you because she thinks of you as a friend, but because she never really saw you that way in the first place.

» Sat May 12, 2012 10:13 pm

Someone needs to tell me what JAHO means... and DAHO?

Just Ask Her Out and Don't Ask Her Out

» Sat May 12, 2012 10:33 pm

I'm so sorry you've been hurt badly like this. I'd like to tell you that not all women are like that, but we probably all are.

BUT, if it's any consolation,it works the other way too!

A few years back, I fell for a guy. I mean, supremely, excrutiatingly fell for a guy. I gave him everything I had, emotionally, financially, physically. God I loved that boy. And he ended it, stating that he just didnt feel like having relationships. Fair enough, I adored him enough that I was just so so happy to still have him as a friend.
oddly enough, nothing really changed for me. We were still best friends, I still gave him everything I had, completely of my own free will. The only thing that changed was that he slept with other girls also, and as his best friend I got to hear all the gory details. We allways had such a good time together, he was so happy to have someone like me to talk to also, he said it was cool to have a best mate that also 'did stuff'. It was cool how I could understand the issues he had with girls, it was cool how we could play games together, watch porm together, and then I could do a little lapdance for him and show him some new stuff in that aspect of things.
Friends. Friends for farks sake.

Fast forward 2 years in which time I got away from him by quite drastically moving to another country, and I still miss him and what good 'friends' we were. It's only now I realise that giving up that much for someone who didnt even really care wasnt particularly healthy.

So please dont think it's something girls just to to boys. I too have been in that dreaded friend zone, nothing more than a 'little sister figure' 'agony aunt' and 'disposable tissue'.

sounds like you need a new best friend, a shoulder to cry on. i provide sympathy you provide lapdances :biggrin:

nah im just [censored] with ya, hope you find a decent enough man, they are extremely rare, but nobody is completely perfect....

@OP- you dont wanna slip into the friend zone? now is the time to act, pull off a romantic stunt or just tell her straight up you want her. or whatever else you can think of that would suit her standards/personality. just act now but remember nothing is ever guaranteed.

» Sun May 13, 2012 10:17 am

I don't understand why the advice is just ask her out. All I imagine is a really awkward conversation, and if she accepts a really awkward date. If you don't really know the girl then its sound advice, but with a friend how would you even bring that up? I would say go for drinks with her and make some moves, but Mormonism puts a damper on that.

» Sat May 12, 2012 6:12 pm

Are you serious? We literally http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1330981-the-friend-zone/page__fromsearch__1. You're not going to get any new advice that hasn't already been repeated a thousand times over.

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» Sun May 13, 2012 3:01 am

Are you serious? We literally http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1330981-the-friend-zone/page__fromsearch__1. You're not going to get any new advice that hasn't already been repeated a thousand times over.

Looks like you got played. This is a JAHO thread disguised as a friend zone thread. :bunny:

It should be pretty simple, if you have feelings for someone, JAHO.. simplify.

» Sun May 13, 2012 4:57 am

Demand that she cook soup for you now. :shrug:

» Sun May 13, 2012 2:02 am

if your religious ideals already prevent you two from having a long term relationship aren't you already in the friend zone?

» Sun May 13, 2012 12:04 am

Are you serious? We literally http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1330981-the-friend-zone/page__fromsearch__1. You're not going to get any new advice that hasn't already been repeated a thousand times over.

That assumes we actually came up with something smart in that thread. :bunny:

I personally can't help at all. I'm terrible when it comes to this kind of things.

» Sat May 12, 2012 10:16 pm

Hmmm... Now that you mention it, call up two hokers OP. Have them pose as your wives and ask her out. Problem solved.

To the OP.
"youd have made a great brother for a sister ,I have always wanted an older brother"
does not translate to me as "I like you like a brother"
It means : I feel comfortable and trustful around you. like I would a big brother.

"you're an incredible man. How did I get so lucky that you found me in your search?"
Means she likes you, REALLY LIKES YOU.

Does she need to hit you over the head with a baseball bat to get it through to you?
JAHO

BTW, my husband is catholic, I come from a mix of presbyteryian and pentecostal familes, and am an atheist. We've been together for nearly two decades.
Friendzone is the sugarcoated polite white lie for "He who hesitates loses."

» Sun May 13, 2012 7:42 am

Solution: You - "Hey , want to go out to the cinema, or for some drinks say next Saturday about 8-9?"
Get in there son!

» Sat May 12, 2012 11:42 pm

Does it even have to be that? Just go up and talk to her, get to know her..etc..

It's just an approach I like to take. Immediatly "going out" seems way too fast for me.

» Sun May 13, 2012 1:26 am

I find that if you stand really close to them and start breathing heavily on them that they notice right away that you are attracted to them.

» Sat May 12, 2012 11:50 pm

I find that if you stand really close to them and start breathing heavily on them that they notice right away that you are attracted to them.

Drool a little and pant like an out of breath dog....wait just become a dog!