I dont think its as much video game player as a whole, yes there will always be those people who have the set opinion that we should all act in the manner set forth by them as a standard, but i know way to many professional people who play video games, and young and old people, i think the problematic part is the stereotyped nerd who plays video games who can qoute every line from a game and knows how many pixels there are in the blemish on said characters face, and spend more time learning pointless facts.
I enjoy playing games, but i enjoy playing them not living them, or making them my life, what was the final straw for me was when i was with some people i knew and we went out drinking and the guys just made it a nerd fest from when we walked in the door, i couldnt stand it for long, there were higher priorities there which they didnt seem to notice, but i think they were lucky to walk out, and not carried out.