Seeing if this truly is only happening to "a few people", or if it's an inevitability. Please let me know.
I have 95 hours on my file, and only have a relatively small save file, only 8000kb still. I am very good at cleaning up after myself, leave nothing on the floor, put unwanted items on bodies, keep all doors closed. Been doing it since morrowind.
Ive only experienced "slide show" frame rate drops a handful of times, once when i was running away from an anicent dragon (had no fire resist gear on me) and yea, frame rate dropped into the single digits and i died trying to get away that time.
Most frame rate problems are in towns/cities, with other being in the field when it tries to load in assets (trees, rocks, textures, ect)
Ive only had ONE crash when walking out of my home once, was in the past hour actually.