I noticed that there is a slight problem with getting married, and that is when it involves multiple people. I had Uthgerd the Unbroken as a follower for some time, then she died in a dungeon. So, I took my stuff from here and continued on my journey, cause I didn't care much that she was a follower. When I became the Arch-Mage for the college, I helped Brelyna Maryon with some spells. After that, I wore the amulet and got the quest to marry her. Lydia is a follower at this time. When I set up the wedding and wait, inside or outside, it says I missed my own wedding. Upon investigating, I noticed that Uthged's body was on the floor, and it ended any chance of getting married. No one wanted to talk to me. Could it be that because I had a possible marriage candidate die on me that it is screwed up? Hope this gets fixed in the next patch, or the one that might follow.