http://www.product-reviews.net/2011/11/09/skyrim-steam-pre-load-released-pc-download-time-contingency-plan/

This is not a cheat, hint, or spoiler, but thank you

But you know, those in the "General" forum are SOOO touchy, I just don't want to talk to them anymore. It's a forum about a game that you're not allowed to talk about unless you know absolutely nothing about it.

Got it, you has to right click and select pre load info then press start preload, it does not start automatically at least not yet.