Just wondering Bethesda. Would it hurt to show some sympathy to us PS3 users and offer us a discount on one of your games for PS3?

Jesus, be patient. Can't you at least wait a week for this patch to see if it fixes it then? If it doesn't fix it, then fair enough, demand things. But I hardly think it's fair to not allow the company at least a few weeks to fix their game.

I love this game, it may be my favourite game ever made. But I swear, it's as if half the users here think they've been denied food for two weeks or something.

Would it hurt? Financially, yes. It would also make Bethesda actually stand up to the PS3 fanbase and the wider gaming community and say 'we [censored] up, big time...'.
They didn't do it with Fallout 3, and the chances are astronomically slim that they're gonna do it now.