Ars Technica has written an article that sums up a lot of the complaints quite nicely.

http://arstechnica.com/gaming/news/2011/11/pc-skyrim-is-a-frustrating-messand-will-soon-be-the-best-version.ars

If the modding community can fix this... why can't Bethesda? After all, I paid Bethesda, not the modders.

nice article, agreed