I found a somewat fix for this problem, make sure when your using said character file to delete all auto-saves, files associated with it, turn off auto-save features and character menu auctsave then create a new save file which should be smaller, auto-saves tend to build the character file size up a decent bit I'm lvl 47 done main quest line, civil war, thieves guild, dark brotherhood and companions and my file size is only 6790kb. Also be sure the under belly of your ps3 has proper ventilation and the back fan area is not obstructed or dirty.
ah but do you have a house and like to collect items from the game? thanks for the advice

have already turned off the autosaves to no avail. The problem only gets worse as my savefile increases in size. im not happy changing my playstyle, ie not collecting things, stop exploring etc. that would defeat the object of an open ended, open world game, having to play in a specific way.