just need a ball park figure if anyone can help me out. how much gold is available through out skyrim. like should i be careful spending it on houses and vendor armor / weapons and stuff or can i blow it as it comes in. im only level 14 so gold is still somewhat scarce it seems

You can make infinite money chopping wood and dungeons respawn, sell what you make and profit.

Just like in previous TES games, Alchemy can make you a ton. Just pick everything you run across as you travel. Your Alchemy skill doesn't shoot up like a weed in Skyrim, so you can do this without too much overleveling.

in a way its unlimited... of course uu have to find it or sell stuff but it never goes away

Gold is infinite. Enchanting/smithing can help you get better prices for loot too. Also,

All of the above suggestions. Also, gold shouldn't be so hard to come by, really. I haven't actively been trying to make it and I've got nearly 7000, and I'm only around 15-20 hours in. (Level 9.)

Don't hoard your loot, if you can help it. Some enchanted items sell for a good price.

when / how to dungeons respwan? when i kill everything in a dungeon the icon on the map will say that it is cleared...

They unclear. I got attacked by a bunch of forsworn after fast traveling to a cleared location today. Sorry, I don't have any idea what the time frame is on dungeon resets, though.

Dungeons should respawn every 72 hours

ahhh i totally just realized im being a hoarder. bought a house unloaded 200 pounds of all my ingredients and random books and other stuff. i think having a place to stash my stuff now will help me have more room to hold valuable things. thanks fellows