I've been having the same problem since release. I just fixed it.
Make a shortcut directly to TESV.exe and run it in compatibility mode for Windows 95.
I have this same problem and tried your solution. It will goto the screen where you can choose "new" (or load etc.) but it will crash immediately after I try to do anything like press enter or press up or down.
This bug is very frustrating because I have no idea how to fix it and I cannot play the game I just purchased :\