my steps:
First looked at settings in game, the xbox 360 controller option was checked already
took my favorite Xbox controller, plugged it into the cord (plug n play charge cord with usb end) then plugged other end (usb) into my laptop
notification at bottom of my computer pops up says that xbox 360 controller plug and play read to use and there was a green check mark, even noticed the red light come on to show that the controller was charging
held down the xbox button to turn the controller on and well it turned my xbox console on lol
I then loaded my Skyrim game up on my PC and ignored the fact that my xbox console was on, proceeded to play the game however the controller never picked up the PC game and did work with my PC only worked with the Xbox
I am probably missing a simple step, and I apologize for my lack of knowledge, please help thanks guys!