I postponed this thread to cool down, yesterday I was full of rage so I think I wouldnt convey my problem but rather offend some people - which is counterproductive.
Here I go:
I was playing the game from the time of release on custom settings inbetween high-ultra settings, with 4GB workaround when it came out. The fps was somewhere between 30-40 at all times, I was happy. All the marvels...
Now, here I am, after taking a break - I piled 170 hours, not even half of my journal is completed - for several months from Skyrim. I fire it up, steam and the game updates, it tells me it can handle more ram now, oh the glory! Fine I say! Lets try the original launcher! I load last save and ... I see a slideshow.

WTH I think to myself... Check again, 12-13 fps on my last settings. What?
REstart the game, choose high settings, disable hi res textures pack. 15-18fps. What?
Restart the game, defrag & integrity of the files check, nVid configuration check, boot, load, MEDIUM settings... 20-23fps. WHAT?

Can someone explain to me WHAT HAPPENED? Is this a new way of patching a game nowdays? I would like to know what is the cause and how do I fix it? I want HIGH graphical settings at the least, with 30fps constant if not higher. Damn people, how am I to read this course of action when I could run the game smoothly and after some version change I cant even get close to the quality I had before.
I am really irritated right now. Some insight would be nice, thank you.
EDIT:
How do I correct typo in the subject of the thread?