With Hearthfire just a day away I'm wondering about the process of moving houses. In particular I'm curious if you are married how do you get your wife to move with you to the new home?

Also (ON THE XBOX) is there any way to get Sylgja to stop wearing that ridiculous pickaxe? I'd really like to have her as a vampire wife.

In the trailer they showed the player talking to Aela asking her to move to the new house.

As for moving...that is your own thing.