I had to accept that my character will never be recognized for his deeds like Oblivion or Morrowind did.
There was a system of reputation in the older games, how you do your quest, how you choose to finish your quest, and you will get the deed ( fame or infamy ) according to your choice, the world felt alive.
I remember a quest in Cheydinhal in Oblivion about a corrupt Guard, if you kill him, you will get infamy point, if you expose him you will get fame points. Choices !
Also in Fallout 3 and new vegas, there were attributes, for example strength, charisma and intelligence etc ....
when someone talk to you, he will react according to those attributes, and you were given more option in the dialogue, BUT
in SKYRIM !
You are the same person, a stupid ignorant slow unintelligent weak Nord, what ever you do, everyone thinks the same and react the same.
They scrapped the whole system, what ever you do, has no meaning at all, and this is the most annoying part in Skyrim for me.
All i hope for Bethesda to added it back in a future DLC or TES VI.
Sorry for my english, it's not my first language.