is there somewere I can get a list of the materials i need like making a bed or alcamy table so i dont have to memorize them?

Use the good old Pen and Paper trick, it works everytime

I can't give you specifics but a good rule of thumb is most everything needs a lot of sawn logs and nails, and more often then not also hinges, locks or glass. Furniture uses a lot of straw and trophy racks and armor racks take stone and/or clay and wood and such. Basically, just go into the house with everything you think you might need. Assuming you can afford it.