So after i build my second home i got married, adopted 2 children. but for some reason my spouse and my 2 children stay in my house in solitude. and also when talking to my spouse the option to move into another house disappeared, any reason this happened?

same this happened to me as well

okay actualy found out what i did wrong...had 2 beds and everything but i forgot to put 2 kids chest in their room....they both need 1 otherwise you cant move into the house

ah ok cool