She doesn't seem to have any new dialogue for Hearthfire judging by the fact that she can't become a steward, so she shouldn't complain. Spouses only seem to comment about the house if you talk to them and choose to ask them how the kid(s) are doing, anyway.
Really? i don't have any dialog options like that for my spouse (Farkas). I haven't heard him complain or compliment it either way. He used to say how he liked my house in Whiterun, now nothing. The kids comment here or there but thats it.