***Also - does anyone know if one can build houses in the other locations as well, or is the character stuck with having only one homestead?***
you can build all 3 houses, but you got only one wife, so try what you want to do with the 3 houses, keeping that in mind
for me
1st house = lakeview = core house (armory/bedrooms/storage)
(this create a large connected patio arround the hose, and familly is scripted to go play there and interact with those objects)
(and kitchen is best reserved for heljarchen, because it got a mill)
2nd house = heljarchen = giant alchemist lab and bakery empire = alchemist tower + greenhouse + kitchen
3rd house = winstad = giant enchenting lav for small things that fit into pockets = enchanting tower + library + trophy room
vyndrell hall will be turned into a dwemer museum, I'll put calcemo out f business
I find that I am laughing at myself as I play Skyrim with my newly installed PC Hearthfire DLC.
I didn't think I would bother with this DLC. The premise didn't exactly draw me in - you're not exactly crawling thru new castles, caves or regions fighting off hordes of unpleasant wierdos in order to find the sacred relic or rescue the damsel in distress or etc etc etc.....
Nevertheless, on a lark, I decided to give it a try. Now I'm having a great time planning my new home, gathering the materials (some quarried/mined, others bought) and being a real nest-builder.

I was thinking of passing it up as well, at least until they release a major expansion
But the recent sale last week brought dawnguard and hearth fires down to 20$
With Skyrim being underpriced at 60$, this brought the total to 80$, same price I paid for Diablo II 10 years ago
I did some serious 'research' on youtube videos comparing hearthfires and a mod
After seing videos showcasing the interiors, I decided to give it a try
I knew already the enchinter/alchemist towers were going to be disapointing in size
(but well organized to sort ingredients, especialy the alchemy tower)
but the armory seemed well done, and it seemed larger than previous houses
as for dawnguard, it was on sale, but lets not get off topic
there was a few issue, like figuring out you should always disable all workbenches
and only enable one at a time when needing to build more stuff
(otherwise ... crash !!!)
My first house was aimed to be multipurpose, family friendly, and confortable
I went for bedrooms + storage + armory
since there are already an alchemy zone downstair,
and an enchanting zone upstairs
this little gem beat the hell out of Vyndrel Manor, except for bookcases
I do wish bethesda had added a few manikins and bookcases
everywhere arround the house as extras (and for decorative value)
I mean a suit of elven armor looks great anywhere
after a over 2 days of playtime, with a new character,
I found it changed my playstyle a lot
I tend to stay in the area during the building process
and have only visited falkreath, whiterun, riften, irvastead and shor stone so far
I think this single fact adds a lot to immersion
I'm no longer a questionable dungeon raiders killing defenseless falmers,
I'm a thane defending falkreath !!!
I plan to setup my 2 other houses as specialized laboratory
alchemy lab in hlerjarchen (alchemist tower/greenhouse/kitchen)
enchanter lab in windstad (library, enchanter tower, trophy room)
I'll be keeping the small house layout in both cases
so my stewart and housecarl get their own bed
but also because I hate the default upstair bedroom
so, this added functionality, a hugue house +armory, with separates specialized labs in the other house,
improves the gameplay a lot.
I do wish that the original houses had been better done
but I guess they spent some time doing it right for hearthfires
not perfect for sure, but they are close to what peoples want
***For DG, I spent 40 hours, again with lots of fast travel. That was $20, which equates to $0.50/hour. Not as good as vanilla Skyrim, but it seems to me it's still a fantastic deal. Also, DG blew my socks off with its fantastic landscapes and awesome quests.
***
I don't evaluate entertainment with hourly costs
in my youth, entertainment was free, no reason to change that
I do expect to pay when going to a theatre or a show,
because building a physical stage is expensive
but a video game should be like a boardgame, you should be able to play it endlessly
as I said, for me the cost is ''fair'' because skyrim was underpriced
(compared to similar titles) not because it was fair in itself
I would have prefered for it to be already in the game right away
I noticed there seem to be more or better random events, not sure if the two dlcs played a role in that. could be.
Also physics seemed improved, I can place all sorts of stuff on shelves now