In summary, the first third-party mod that access a Quest of another mod via GetFormFromFile works.
However, the 2nd (and possibly others) fails.
Read this first:
http://www.creationkit.com/Talk:GetFormFromFile_-_Game
The the below solution and example will make sense:
EDIT: The solution I think to include the Quest Script file (PEX) with the 3rd-party - providing you are permitted.
That file then lays dormant because its ESP is not installed.
It will allow the other third-party mods to work stead than to fail completely.
E.g. with my mods Battle Fatigue and Injuries (BFaI) and Professions, I need to include the Quest for Eat and Sleep (EaS).
With that one file from EaS, neither BFaI and Professions fails.
Without that file, EaS becomes a requirement because either BFaI and Profession fails.