I dont see how having Hadvar introduce you to the stones can bother you so much. Why do you let something so minor bother you so much? I dont understand why this is an issue for you how you make it sound.
Hold on. Maybe I'm missing something here. But it sounds to me like you're the one saying it bothers you so much. He's the one saying it doesn't bother him.
Anyway this has never happened in my games. But if it happens for other people I agree that it ought to be fixed.