After taking the potion and going into the dream state, then releasing the miasma, I'm brought back into the present, after which I can take the soul gem. It's at that point that the game crashes every time, regardless of whether I have mods active or not, and I have no idea why. As I said, I've never had this issue before, could it be patch 1.8 and I'm only noticing it now as I'm trying to do a fresh playthrough ready for Dragonborn?
I have nearly every quest in the game done (I'm ignoring radiant quests and hand in x vegetable etc quests as they're repeatable and don't really count as far as I'm concerned) so i don't want to have to start again, and I need to do this quest so I can become the thane of Dawnstar. I also don't have Hearthfire or Dawnguard running, as I don't want vampire attacks happening until I'm completely done with Vanilla Skyrim (I hate it when questgivers die because they're to stupid to run away).