My second biggest gripe with mages in Skyrim (the being the weak destruction) is that you need so much magicka, that I barely end up with enough health. I get one shotted a lot at higher levels. Obviously a mage shouldn't be able to hang in a close fight the same way a warrior can, but is there any advice you can give on making a more durable mage?
I could wear heavy armor, but it takes me so long to get my enchanting up to a level that enchanting my own stuff is worthwhile.
Do as I did:
Look,I play on expert,so it may be diferent for you.
On the begining of your levels,until level 15,you may wish to Spend everything in HP,so you'll be the most durable in most difficulties,250hp,make sure to put something on Stamina,if you'll be a staff mage,when you're done in this,until level 50,you'll increase only your magicka,About the perk points,Use it on Destruction,restoration,enchanting,Alchemy,Smithing,Light Armor,After you get some fine enchants.enchant the best possible armor ,with the best enchantments,(I'd recomend fortify health and Fortify Magicka),when you done,you continue increasing your magicka,until 70,then you'll can use the most spells.
Ah,don't forget to use some fortify destruction enchants to,helps a lot.
About the stone,your choice,try to use the Lover if you want.
I'd recomend you be a Vampire Lord.
I'd really recomend you finish the Mage's College questline.
I'd REAAAAALLY recommend you finish the Dark brotherhood questline.(20.000 gold helps a lot when buying spells.)
Ah,get some perks from conjurations(Master conjuration and Twin Souls)
Then you finish peryite quest and Thrall Orchendor.
Lok,thu'um.