My character is married to Farkas and so far, when I told him I'd like to move somewhere else, he would just leave the current house and head towards the new place, as one would expect. At least this was the case before we adopted any kids - I've also moved house after adopting Lucia, but then Farkas was my follower and after telling him to move and dismissing him, he would just walk away and eventually appear at the desired destination.

Now we have both Lucia and Runa, and on top of that Meeko as a pet. I wanted to move from Solitude to Lakeview, which is now fully furnished, and I thought it would be a nice roleplaying experience if we travelled together with the entire family (plus a follower for protection).

However, whenever I told my hubby to move, he would first say "I'll see you there" and after exiting conversation "I'll be here my dear" and then he would just hang around Proudspire Manor like he always does. I've tried waiting, exiting and entering the house, sleeping, hiring and dismissing him - nothing worked. Then I travelled to Lakeview and he and the kids and the dog were all there, as if they had teleported.

So my question is: what causes this changed moving house mechanic? Is it because we have kids? Or is it the dog? Or maybe it's just an issue with travelling to and/or from Lakeview Manor/HF houses?

I'm on xbox, so no mods that could interfere.