ALL i did was go to Solitude court, yes the big blue castle thing and ask for a kids bed room. it cost me 3.000 gold and its a whole new room added to your manor next to your bed room. the wifes happy the kids are happy and I wish I knew about it three days ago.

now to reload an old save and build my new plot homes without the kids bed rooms and a nagging wife always going on about monsters.

oh has any one seen my cooking pot it has vanshed from proudspire manor oh well must be anther bug at least im not getting nagged any more.

How did you adopt kids without a kids room?

Yeah, kids and wife seem to love Proudspire. Can't blame them, it is the bigger, brightest, safest city in Skyrim. You basically are living in a mansion in the capital city, wife and kids better be damn happy.

Sweet, my wife always complains, is there a way to move your family to another house?

...Read OP's post again...

Exacly Now IF you get them to wear some "Fine Clothes" or "Radient Remanats Garments" and take them to meet the Jarl they might show you some respect knowing how much of a big shot you are just don't let on that she's your mistress...

~NS

I wish all of the child room options added new rooms to the homes, rather than replacing things you might want to use there.