I am looking all around but I can't find any torch that is actually deactivated , all I want is to drop a couple of torches on ground for the player to pick up couse my dungeons are very dark .... so where can I get those? the only ones I found , ( torch01) are lightened when dropped to ground ...

Torches are just wearable light sources, as far as I know there's no unlit torch mesh. Putting them in a container is probably the best option.