I know DLC don't ussually mix but since this isn't a required thing to progress story etc, i figured maybe it's in, basically my question is, is there any land to build a house hearthfire style on the island of solstheim? because im getting tired of going back to skyrim every time i want to drop items and armor off taking up about 20 minutes of time every time i do, thanks

Not that I have found.....why not just get the house in Raven Rock for temporary storage or the dremora butler?

No new landplots that I've found. there's a house in raven rock. And supposedly one in in the telvani tower. And another supposed in skaal village

The one in the Telvani tower is just a bed and chest....no house and the bed shows up as 'owned'.
The only way you can get a house in the Skaal village is to marry one of the candidates there, nothing to buy or get otherwise that I have experienced or read (on the multiple forums and sites that I have been combing over since last week).

yeah ill definitely do that i just really like the hearthfire ones i want to actually feel like im using the dlc i paid for and as long as im playing dragonborn im not really able to thats all.

You can also crash in the bed at the steward's house in Tel Mithryn, if you're okay with a little breaking and entering. The steward doesn't seem to mind.