The bolded first two words is your problem IMO. Should do your own research and come to your own conclusions. Had you done that, you would know that there will in fact be first person in ESO and they are currently working on it more so it properly shows your hands and weapons.
Also you would know that in ESO you DO have to aim at your target to hit.
Bolded the second sentence that is your problem.
1) Has it occurred to you he's coming here asking for information as an act of research while simultaneously voicing his opinion that he want's it implemented properly?
2) I've been keeping up, and even I haven't heard anything about them implementing hands and weapons in 1st person. In fact, last I read - it can only be played in first person so long as you're not in combat.