load order is mysterious to me to say the least. i see no rhyme or reason to it. but i enjoy installing mods. got back into the game again and hoped you all could help me arrange my load order.

unofficial skyrim patch
alternate sun glare
better dynamic snow
better embers
birds and flocks
deeper snow
enhanced distant terrain
HD plants+herbs
HQ snow texture
kerplunk watery rocks
lush grass
lush trees
milky way galaxy texture v1.2
moss rocks
rainbows
shooting stars
static mesh improvement mod
terrain bump
thats ice
vibrant auroras
water and terrain enhancement redux
enhanced high level gameplay
more dragon loot
enhanced blood textures 3.0c
dense vegetation
towns and villages enhanced: windhelm
towns and villages enhanced: whiterun
towns and villages enhanced: villages
towns and villages enhanced: solitude
towns and villages enhanced: riften
towns and villages enhanced: falkreath
towns and villages enhanced: riverwood
distant detail
detailed cities
detailed outskirts
kill moves no blur
wearable lanterns
character creation overhaul- diverse races and genders
character creation overhaul- races-classes-skills
character creation overhaul-dynamic skill progression
chopping block/woodfires fix
magic light shadows
reduced distance npc greetings
towns and villages enhanced (markarth+)
towns and villages enhanced: whiterun exterior
realistic ragdolls and force
improved interior lighting (for realistic lighting mods)
etheral elven overhaul lite
real skin improved chargen for women
SFO- expanded diversity
skyrim flora overhaul
get snowy
hothtrooper44_armor compilation
immersive weapons
spike

i know its big, but there is my load order. looking it over im sure there are some redundancies (mods that affect the same thing) and i need to adjust it.

Atm my game plays perfectly fine, for about 20min-1hour, then it either crashes to desktop or freezes. i dont think its a memory or ram issue, as my game sails swimmingly up to that point. any help would be GREATLY appreciated

Use BOSS to set your load order. Get it from the same place you got the mods that are messing up.

I also don't see any Bashed or Merged Patch, you need one of those.