I recently married Taarie from teh Radiant Raiment, and I would like to know two things:

1) If I store my extra crap in her bookshelves, chests, and other containers, will they all respawn, will some of them respawn, or will none of them respawn?

2) For Hearthfire, can you have kids there? I noticed there are three bedrooms, even though only two people initially live there. Even if it isn't classified as a "child's" bed, can I still have a child in this house?