5+ years ago my friends list use to be very long and full of life. Fast forward to today and on Xbox their either not on or using Netflix. On PS3 they quit logging in all together and my PC friends are usually online, away or sleeping. It's very rare for me to have people playing games on my friends list. Are your gaming friends MIA?
I would be one of those to whom you are referring. In my case it's not because I don't play anything anymore it's because I do it offline to avoid people on my friends list inviting me to play with them or some [censored]. I don't even know why I have a friend list.
I have a very select group of about 10 friends that I find playing regularly. The other friends are hit and miss, and some of them haven't been on in forever, my current record holder has been off for about 2+ years.