title pretty much says it all. ex has moved on, i used to be her best friend. a few months back she admitted to having a crush on me, and i told her i did also. from the day i first met her. after about a month she said her life was too hepatic to keep a relationship, then told me it wouldn't work between us. never got a clear reason why, but after that she wanted to be friends again, at first i said no, but a couple days ago i tried to be friends with her again, but seeing shes moved on with another guy has proven im not over her, so i told her i couldn't be friends with her again. i really and truly hate to ask for more advice on this topic, but i need some help and don't really have anybody to ask anymore.

Oh, that svcks man. My advice is to take some time away from her. Block her on Facebook, don't text, etc. Hearing updates about her and her boyfriend probably won't be good if you're not over her. Find something to occupy your time and mind. Since it seems like you didn't end on terribly bad terms, maybe after a while, you can be friends.

Have you tried developing a dependancy on bacon enrobed in dark chocolate? a herd of cats?

Sorry to hear that, but carrying blood to and from the liver is a full time job.

trust me. i cant be again. its been way too long, and all that im reminded of around her is all i wasted for her. not to mention she and her new BF are practically conjoined around the hip, sadly.... i don't want to be her friend anymore. shes awesome.... but.... i don't want to sound selfish, but i don't think i could be happy being just friends anymore.

lol I caught that too.

In all seriousness, I agree with Spanky. Just take some time away. There's plenty of fish in the sea. You're still young. Time heals all wounds. Yadda yadda, I'm sure you've heard it all. One day you'll wake up and realise you haven't thought about her in ages.

bacon no, sadly my parents are allergic to cats. i have to make do hugging my neighbors.

i guess i should just add, im not interested in being friends anymore. i just want to be over her.

Dude,Its not selfish, To be honest some would say it was selfish of her wanting you to still be her friend when you clearly wanted something more.

Its complicated. I hope you get better bro.

thanks.

Drink until the edge comes off, then whip out your list of runner ups.