First off the Nexus link doesn't work, the one in the original post has edit file in it
Tried it, pretty good so far. I'm wondering will the 'waiting period' be increased? The dialogue seems to indicate that she knows you somewhat well when she joins you, while the actual interaction can be little more than
her:"will you do this"
you:"ok"
her:"thanks"
*3 hours later*
you: "here you are"
her: "oh thank you, here's your reward. Make sure and be and touch, I'll have some more for you later"
*next day*
her "Can I join you!"
you: *uhh, I thought she just wanted to have a sort of regular customer relationship, she seems way too needy*... uhh, no.
I understand that if you had to actually visit her several times the impatient people would go all "ZOMHG I JuST WNT HOT COMPANION CHICK!"Maybe the player could have a dialogue option like:
"I like to get to know my companion's first, I'll consider it as we get to know each other better."
From there you'd visit her everyday, find out more about her life in DawnStar, and maybe some of the backstory dialogue that you would normally get while having her as a companion. Eventually it'd reach a point where she has nothing new to say, and you have to recruit her in order to continue things.
The hat thing could be a showing of trust, you can get her not to wear it, but if you try to take it in trade she'll ask why... maaaaybe.
In Willow they used her rifle, and clothes as a trust mechanism. Until you reached a certain point you couldn't get her to change her clothes, or take her rifle. Not sure how well that hat would work though because most players would probably just think "What's the point, it's just a generic hat... then again that could probably be solved by naming/enchanting it so the players feel it is as special it is to her.
Kind of a crazy idea, but maybe if the author doesn't want to remove the dancing music he could explain it with say... her mother was a Sheogorath follower who was blessed with a certain quirkiness, and weird things would happen around her due to Sheogorath's blessing. When her mother died the blessing passed over to her, and due to the fact that things have been this way for her at a young age she thinks it is normal, and has yet to discover this secret.
Could be any interesting gameplay, and story dynamic; have all sorts of weird events happen while she's with you like a friendly mud crab starts following her around only to be killed by you, or a guard when you enter a town, beggars walking up to her in town and giving her 100 gold, weird music playing out of nowhere during certain events (as we've already seen), maybe she talks of seeing/hearing things you don't. (weird animals, seeing everyone as being naked, random words/phrases like "CHEESE FOR EVERYONE!" being shouted etc.)
Only problem with that is you'd have to explain ahead of time that just about anything really weird that happens in the mod will be explained in time, and that the mod is indeed lore friendly
