Hello I recently started playing Oblivion again and have added mods. I know nothing at all about how to set up my load order though. Anyone care to help? This is my current list. Thanks in advance!

Oblivion.esm

Jog_X_Mod.esm

MD_Saddle_Master.esm

Cobl Main.esm

Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm

Mart's Monster Mod.esm

Better Cities Resources.esm

Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp

UOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.esp

DLCShiveringIsles.esp

Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp

Better Cities .esp

oc_darker_nights.esp

Enhanced Water v2.0 ND.esp

Symphony of Violence.esp

AmbientTownSounds.esp

MIS Low Wind.esp

MIS New Sounds Optional Part.esp

Distant Chapel Bells.esp

IWR-Lights.esp

IWR-Windows.esp

IWR-Shutters.esp

AliveWaters_nofish.esp

Bedrollsanyone.esp

Days&Months.esp

Q - More and Moldy Ingredients v1.1.esp

Reset the Blood Decal Variable.esp

Living Economy.esp

Living Economy - Items.esp

Cutthroat Merchants.esp

Crowded Roads.esp

Immersive Travelers.esp

FF_Real_Thirst.esp

Choices and Consequences.esp

DLCHorseArmor.esp

DLCHorseArmor - Unofficial Patch.esp

DLCOrrery.esp

DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp

DLCVileLair.esp

DLCVileLair - Unofficial Patch.esp

DLCMehrunesRazor.esp

DLCMehrunesRazor - Unofficial Patch.esp

DLCSpellTomes.esp

DLCSpellTomes - Unofficial Patch.esp

Dude Wheres My Horse.esp

MD Saddlebags V3.0.esp

HRMHorseCommands.esp

DLCThievesDen.esp

DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch.esp

DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch - SSSB.esp

Cobl Glue.esp

Cobl Si.esp

OOO 1.32-Cobl.esp

Cobl Tweaks.esp

Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp

Choices and Consequences - OOO.esp

Mart's Monster Mod for OOO.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse Creature Skins.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - Gems & Gem Dust.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - Hunting & Crafting.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - Less Bone Loot.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - No Giants.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - City Defences.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - Friendlier Factions OOO+FCOM.esp

Creatures Alive v1.3.esp

PersuasionOverhaul_OOO.esp

PersuasionOverhaul_MMM.esp

MMM-Cobl.esp

Corpse_Kvatch.esp

LetThePeopleDrink-Cobl.esp

thievery.esp

Travelers Inns.esp

VaultsofCyrodiil.esp

DLCBattlehornCastle - Unofficial Patch.esp

DLCFrostcrag.esp

DLCFrostcrag - Unofficial Patch.esp

Knights.esp

Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp

SM Plugin Refurbish(Merged).esp

road+bridges.esp

Harvest [Flora].esp

Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp

Harvest [Flora] - DLCVileLair.esp

Harvest [Flora] - DLCFrostcrag.esp

Dungeon Actors Have Torches 1.6 DT.esp

Exterior Actors Have Torches 1.3 DT.esp

P1DkeyChain.esp

PersuasionOverhaul.esp

ReneersGoldMod.esp

Borderless_Cyrodiil-3578.esp

Quest Award Leveller.esp

Quest Award Leveller - Vile Lair.esp

Quest Award Leveller - Mehrunes Razor.esp

Quest Award Leveller - Knights of the Nine.esp

RealHungerv1.4.esp

RealisticFatigue.esp

RealSleep.esp

Stealth Entrances v1.esp

No psychic guards harder v1.2.esp

Dark Dungeons - SI.esp

Mart's Monster Mod - Resized Races.esp

Better Cities SKINGRAD.esp

Better Cities BRAVIL.esp

Better Cities ANVIL.esp

Better Cities CHORROL.esp

Better Cities CHEYDINHAL.esp

Better Cities LEYAWIIN.esp

Better Cities - No LEYAWIIN Flooding.esp

Better Cities BRUMA.esp

Better Cities - Thievery.esp

Better Cities IC Arboretum.esp

Better Cities IC Arcane University.esp

Better Cities IC Arena.esp

Better Cities IC Elven Gardens.esp

Better Cities IC Green Emperor Way.esp

Better Cities IC Market.esp

Better Cities IC Prison.esp

Better Cities IC Talos Plaza.esp

Better Cities IC Temple.esp

Better Cities IC Waterfront.esp

OOO-Respawn_Two_Week.esp

Streamline 2.1.esp

Download BOSS. It will take care of sorting your load order for you. I used to knock BOSS, but I've seen the error of my ways. BOSS rocks.

Ive already installed BOSS when I ran it my list didnt change?

It looks like it's already in the right order to me. Unless you magically managed to install the mods in the same order that BOSS places them, which is pretty unlikely, the load order you posted is what BOSS did.

nevermind, ninja'd

Suggestions:
Replace IWR with AWLS
Replace Living Economy and Cutthroat Merchants with Enhanced Economy
Creatures Alive will conflict with MMM and quite possibly mess up what MMM tries to do. Much of it is also incorporated into MMM, I think.
Borderless_Cyrodiil-3578.esp - use the ini tweak to remove borders instead.
RealHungerv1.4.esp - old version. Update
RealSleep.esp - update to Real Sleep Extended
Dark Dungeons - SI.esp - update to Cava Obscura
VaultsofCyrodiil.esp - I don't think you need this if using Better Cites.

And you absolutely should use Wrye Bash and make a Bashed Patch when using so many mods!

Others can help you with BOSS better than I can, but I noticed that you use a good number of outdated mods that you should replace for newer and better mods:

Replace with Animated Windows Lightning System (AWLS)


Replace with Enhanced Economy


Replace with Crowded Roads Revisited


Delete and replace with simple ini setting


Replace with Real Sleep Extended


Replace with the two combined BBC files


Upgrade to Streamline 3.1 beta


Edit: Ninja'd, but then we had a few different suggestions too

Thanks Ill change some of my files. Also on start up the game crashes back to desktop. Any idea which mod might be causeing that? Edit: other than the outdated files already mentioned?