Hi, sorry this threat might seem a bit heavy but I just need to let some stuff out.

So, I've been going out with this girl for 3 months and I had never been more in love, everything felt perfect

I was in love in my eyes she was perfect and amazing. I would have done anything and everything for her.... Life was perfect.

Then Two days ago she dumped me with no explanation and left me heartbroken, but we said we'd stay friends.... I was in a depressed state and a lot of my friends thought

something fishy was going on so me knowing her password (i don't care if this was invasive) went on her Facebook profile about an hour and a half ago
and saw she had an inbox from her ex...... so I clicked on it and it went back to a couple of weeks ago till today...... all these messages about how much they love

eachother.... And making fun of me. So I started to have a bit of a breakdown told her to ring me which she did then I asked her about this and she started making
excuses and each time she did I just read out another thing she wrote which proved her to by lying.... The last thing was she said "Oh i didn't dump you for him"
which was contradicted not even a second later..... I then asked her why she lied and she just hung up and blocked me on everything.

All these messages were saying stuff she said to me.... infact the exact same things about how much she loved me etc... It's the most painful thing i've ever read/felt
and i don't know what to do its 2 in the morning here and I'm feeling very depressed and lost.

I don't know what I expect as a response after writing this but I just need to let it out and all my friends are sleep....... But if anyone has any ideas of what to do
please please tell me....... it will be stupidly appriciated...

Beat the [censored] out of the other guy. Whoop his ass. Not a long term solution, but you'll feel better for a while.

I second the ass whooping.

Don't be scared to go out and find someone else, you're better than her, and you'll feel better once you've moved on. Plus she'll no doubt be jealous. People say a lot of things they don't mean to impress someone, don't take it all to heart, except the fact she's a complete [censored].

Not to be a drag on on jag1313 but I wouldn't use violence. I know EXACTLY what you're going through my friend, and I know how hopeless and hurt you feel. The best advice I can give you? A girl like that was never worth your time. She is a liar, a cheat, and quite frankly, a word that begins with a w but I don't want a censorship warning. That guy she's been talking to you probably is just a player and she'll get what's coming to her.

Have a little faith in me man. The girl of my dreams lied and cheated behind my back. All I wanted was her but she decided that ripping my heart into pieces was pretty fun. So just move on. There are so many better girls out there for you, and one's that'll never lie to you. Take my advice? If you want any more advice, feel free to message me. I hate girls like that. A lot.

I usually wouldn't recommend this but...yeah, go right ahead :ninja:

I must say, you have some balls.

You called this girl out on all of her lies and probably made her feel like a piece of [censored]. Bravo. I hate it when people toy with others emotions like she did with yours.

My advice to you is to just forget about this girl, I know it is hard to do and will take time, but there is really nothing else you can do. A broken heart takes a long time to mend.

Thanks man this post was really helpful I'm sorry what you had to go through and yes the feeling is horrible, you think that they are a completely different person

Then when you find out its like.... well its like a different person :/...... But yeah i'll have to try and move on I guess...... Its going to be hard
But its worth a shot...... I have the messages saved on my computer and i cant stop myself from reading them which doesn't help but I want to show this
to people before I delete it. Do you think I should or is it a immature thing to do? I'm not sure.....

I'd show it to your closest friends if you really feel it's worth it and it'll make you feel better, but otherwise just delete it, and any other thing that reminds you of her.

I know how this feels as well. Twice over. I know I should be over the "violent first response" thing by now. But I stood there and took it before. It won't happen again. And he disrespected the OP first by chatting up the little [censored], then by making fun of him as well. Sorry, but where I come from, that's at least a beating.

I understand where you're coming from though. Just gets my blood boiling.

She trusted you and you invaded her privacy.
She dumped you for another guy, for whatever reason,and lied about it.
Neither one of you is mature enough for a relationship right now.
Find something else to occupy your mind, an activity or hobby that makes you feel good about yourself. Hang out with friends, Don't hide inside. Stay busy. Move on, learn from the experience.

Probably a good idea, I'll show it to the people I actually trust then delete it, i've already gotten rid of everything to do with her.....

Its like she never existed....

I'm sorry for what happened to you man , and believe me there is nothing I would love to do more then wipe the smirk of his little face.

But I know after the short term satisfaction I'll have more people hating me then not so it's probably not a good idea

Eh, I don't see how. She gave him her password and was Herpus Derpus enough to not think 'I should change my password before my ex breaks in'. If he hacked her Facebook, I'd agree. But he had a hunch and he followed it. While morally gray, I think he was in the right to investigate.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IStlBOX9F4o
Well tbh just give him an asswhooping.

Agreed.

Sorry to hear that man, I know its tough believe me.

But as someone said earlier, I give you huge props for calling her out like that, and the fact that you disproved everything she tried to lie to you about, just proves how much of a loser she is and that you deserve better. If anything, she's going to get whats coming to her, so you can take some joy in that .

What helps me a lot after something like this happens, is just taking a walk around the neighborhood and listening to my Ipod. It helps clear your head a little and may actually make you feel better. If not a walk, do something else you enjoy, hanging with friends, playing games, going to the movies, going to the gym etc.

I hope it all works out in the end for you, and remember there are WAY better girls then this out there, and trust me, in the end your ex is the one who's going to be hurting, not you.

Agreed.

Thanks bro that made me smile

And in any other case I would go outside or see some friends but here in the UK its the ungodly time of 3:45 am -...-

Sigh...