So, i totally have the option of moving out anytime I want; I've been thinking about it for a while. My girlfriend also says she might have the option. Her mom and her do not get along, and her mom absolutely hates my guts; I'm not even allowed to be in the house. Yes, she hates me that much. Also, privacy with my girlfriend, preferably in a comfortable environment (such as an apartment of my own) is a big issue for me. Anyway, all this makes moving out with my girlfriend look like a viable option. Now, this is speculation in its purest form. We have been going out for 4 days, after all. We wouldn't be moving out until like 5 months down the line anyway should we still be happy together.

What I want to know is the problems that arise with moving out with someone, especially your girlfriend. Any advice?

Why consider it if it's only been four days?

:facepalm:

Don't commit to anything yet. In 5 months when you can move out, reassess the situation.

I thought I read that wrong but you've only been going out four days?

Go for it!

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years and 2 months and we have yet to move out together. We are trying to save towards getting a mortgage so we can buy our own house.

As for problems that arise.......... I always find if you just reply to everything with a "yes dear, whatever you want dear" then you should be fine.

Always remember a woman is always in charge, if you think differently it's only because she is letting you think otherwise.

How did I just know people were going to miss that? :rolleyes:

it may just be speculation but it's still dumb to be thinking about it after 4 days

Why not wait a year then come back to this thread?

Its a forum after all. I guess I can't interact with it and its members unless its for a reason they think is fit.

What did you do to make her mom hate you after four days?

last time I had a girlfriend was in high school, so I have no idea.

my grandparents got married after only 3 days after they met, so :shrug: . its not always bad that you have only been dating for 4 days. however, was this her idea, because if she has not talked about moving in you might be rushing things.

however, her mother hates your guts only after 4 days... I would say you are doing a great job :thumbsup:

If you didn't want any facepalms, you shouldn't have mentioned that you've dated for four days.


Asked her to move out :tongue:

and this is why I have not had a girl friend in a while.

3 Days? Was your grandad a troop on Furlough or something? O_o

I've known my girlfriend and her family for about 3 years. I was young(er) back then, obviously, and had somewhat of a cocky attitude and other flaws associated with being that age (which would be 17 or so). Me and this girl also had a fling back then, which totally pissed her mom off. Why she cant forgive me after 2 years or so is a wonder. Most people agree that she is a child when it comes to this.


Once again, this is purely for speculation.

Did you knock her up by accident and the gf didn't tell you, but she told her mum, and then got an abortion??

Either way, 4 days is way too soon. Just chill.

Never make plans with a woman further in the future than you have been going out. :biggrin:

Me and my girlfriend have dated for 3 years, and known each other for more. Her parent's don't like me, mine don't like hers. We still haven't moved in together.

Just wait.

Edit: In a bit of a retrospect, I realized my situation obviously isn't the same as yours, so I apologize. But in any case, 4 days is too soon for anything no matter how long you've known her.

I appreciate those who have given non abrasive comments or advice, really. All I wanted is peoples experiences with moving in with their girlfriend or people in general; it was just something that was brought up as a future idea. But this is going nowhere. I am well aware how stupid it would be to move in with my girlfriend after 4 days, or even months in the future when I actually consider it.

Mods can lock this.

Good idea.