But thats my point, it still happens, and war torn, stable it's all irrelevent, the fact is terrorism is a daily occurance, suicide bombings happen bidaily if not daily, it's still happening, while it is a tragedy 9/11 occured, I dont look back on it in hindsight with pity, I think the tragedies I hear on NPR daily have made me numb to one particular incident.
Again, I don't think anyone is trying to make you feel differently or argue that the way you feel is wrong in any way. In fact, I totally agree with you that the world is full of tragedy and that in most cases where it happens doesn't mean a whole lot. 9/11 was different
for us because of the implications it had
for us...largely because people didn't expect an attack on civilians on that scale in that place. When things like that happen when you're an advlt and the security of your family, your friends, your children, yourself are brought into question (especially when you don't know whether what you're seeing is an isolated incident or if it's the beginning of something much bigger) it's a big deal.
Anyway, like I said, I don't think anyone is trying to convince you to feel differently. While I do think that the news media used the event (to a disgusting degree) to pander for attention, I also think that the "oh, people should just get over it" attitude is unrealistic. It was pretty scary for a lot of people at the time.