After posting the previous 2 posts I decided to take a deep breath, svck it up and try to play the game/enjoy it. I turned off the game's AA/Anis. filtering like some of you suggested and played on high instead of Ultra, and was able to play the game for around 36min without a CTD. That's the longest the game has run without interruption for me since 1.2. Sadly a fast travel to Whiterun (I was doing Companions radiant quests) ultimately did crash me.
Its irksome that I (and obviously others, based on what many of you are saying) have to play the game in an inferior manner in order to achieve a modicum of stability when, as I said above, my PC runs it beautifully smooth at Ultra settings.
I didn't come here to start a flame war or troll or something. I'm here because I'm frustrated. As I said at the start, I think Skyrim is incredible and I enjoy it more than either MW or Oblivion. At least I did, until the game became so unreliable that I found myself quicksaving every 30-45 seconds out of paranoia that it was going to crash (which it did). It is a game that I desperately want to love, that I wish I could lose myself in for hours. Alas, staring at my desktop 5+ times in a typical half hour of play - something that I've experienced with zero of the 50+ other games I purchased with Steam or other games like WoW - destroys not only any sense of immersion but my interest in bothering with it at all.
My main character is a level 63 warrior-type build, with all the block/1H/BSing/heavy armor perks - I love playing her because it reminds me in ways of playing a warrior tank in WoW. She has made all the 'right' choices - going so far as to avoid Daedric stuff or other quests that I don't feel fit the character. I've made an assassin (loved the Thieves/DBH quests tons) and a mage (Skyrim is the first game where I enjoyed being a caster as much as a melee) but haven't leveled them nearly as much. The idea of starting over bugs me because I've got so much time in on my 'main'. Sure I could recreate her, play her the same way. Maybe I will eventually try and see if that helps.
And, as Members said... whats the deal with Skyrim's supposedly new engine? I'm no expert on that sort of thing, but I'd bet something pretty valuable that this is running on some kind of updated variant of the same one Oblivion/Fallout 3 did. It 'feels' the same.


