No, I'm still using the last WHQL drivers from October, I'd rather not bother with the beta drivers. I'll try the "prefer max power" and also check to see about the memory drop. (I just need to Alt+Tab to get out of Skyrim, and still keep it running, right?)
Oh well damn use the 290.53 beta then, believe me it was a night/day difference in Skyrim performance for sure and I've yet to meet a driver based crash from them playing this game or a few others. Pretty stable all around. Oh if you using something like Nvidia Inspector its got this neat charting tool that shows you graphs of various stats about your video cards and its a good way to kind of watch the progress over time. What you'd be looking for is a heavy and going forward drop in t he clockrate of any of the three monitored components, ie if the GPU clockrate goes from 772 to 405 and stays there that means the driver has turned it down to 'light gaming' mode and this is where yah that max performance setting will overide that and keep going at full rate.
If this does end up being the issue and resolution I emplore you to report back, this fixed this particular issue for myself and I've been advising others to try it when the situation sounds similar like this but I've yet to get a report back saying it was the cause and solution for anyone else.