guys, can i enter the ceremonial door (torq of labyrinthian) without having to take "staff of magnus" quest??or rather,the college of winterhold quest....

Nope.

ooohh noooo,feels like i took an arrow to my heart....

ooh well..guess i'm gonna have FUN with the draugr today...

ooh and btw,where can i find absorb stamina weapon,besides from the laby?i mean,any particular merchant or my char level has to be what??

You can find absorb stamina weapons through random loot, or you can make your own with enchanting. It is a pretty common enchantment

hmm,is it that common on merchants??i never found them

guess my luck just got in the way... *sigh