Hi,

Today i married Lydia after she was my loyal folower for a long time..
However after the ceremony she's dissappeared..
I went home to breezehome, but she was not there..
After sleeping a few days, she still was not home..
Any ideas what could have happened?

Cabbage on your teeth?

Seriously though. It happens. Scroll down to the bottom of this page and you will find a few remedies to the problem. http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Marriage

Thnx, i was just going to say the same thing...

Yes, have a look in Dragonsreach my good man.

Well, i did, and also at the church..
player.moveto 00a2c94 took me to the church again, where the dialog about where to live started imediately...
Everything is cool now... had my especialy cooked healthincreasing meal, and she'll startup shop, for when i am gone...

I must say it is all nicely done, accept for the ai here, the dialogs i mean, are rather...dull.. i mean, and there is nothing for me to say..

There is a mod where you can change her inventory, but it is buggy, and does not use Dimon99 UNP body..
so she looks like a man and walks very funny... i turned that mod off.
I guess i have to use the NPC editor myself to dress her more appropriet..

You got married and she split with 1/2 your stuff Just kidding!! I have had it happen to me, in the game that is.

What do you mean split halve your stuff?
She took half your stuff and left you?
Bummer...