It gets kind of annoying to hear "Are you lost?" every time I enter my house.
Not a big deal. just annoying.
I understand.
In that case, you find a bug thread and calmly report it, so that it gets fixed in a patch. Not create a whole thread and flame Bethesda for "bad writing." Obviously the lines for stranger-not trespassing are triggering instead of "honored to see you my thane."
And FYI to any devs- I have noticed this on Hjerim and Proudspire Manor, not at Vlindrel Hall or Breezehome. Not sure about Honeyside since I didn't get the housecarl there.