Seriously, I need help with this. I want to marry a character from the College of Winterhold, (The Dunmer lass) but I cant because I am not allowed to marry. I was previously married to the Dunmer lass from Whiterun but she got toasted in a Dragon fight. I put on the amulet of Mara and nothing zilch nada, not a single response to it from any of the marriageable characters. Does anyone know a way around this? Im a console player so lets keep it on the console lvl. I simply wish to re-marry for the immersion and roleplay of it. Someone please help.

You cant remarry.
Sorry.

Delete your files and start again.

Otherwise, not possible as of now. Marriage was very much just tacked on for the sake of having it.

Lame, I invested so damn much into this Character. Just beat the main quest too. guess i am going to have to start over. Gonna be hard getting back to lvl 54 lol

Youre that desperate to remarry!? Why?

Cause its part of my Character's roleplay, he is a nord with a thing for Dark Elven women. My original dark elf wife got charizared by a Dovah and now the game doesnt allow me to re-marry. Someone should really fix the wiki as it says you can remarry if your spouse dies. Well, guess Ravern Black-Talon's time has finally come. Gonna go wearing weak armor and take on a Dragon possibly Paarthunax and let him die in battle.

If it's for roleplay reasons you could just become a creepy stalker character who follows Dunmer women in the night and raids their bedside drawers for fine shoes.

If you are on the 360, you should be able to tranfer your save on a pc version of Skyrim, hack it with console comands to reset your marriage status and re-tranfer it to the 360.

Other than that... tough luck

Well she is my companion, I just wanted to make it official. Now I have to re-do everything lol. Become a nightngale, assassinate an emperor, reforge every armor to the lvl I have it now. Re lvl to the lvl I am now, re invest in every perk i have now, collect every shout I have now, buy every house I have now, re collect my daedric artifacts, re complete the companion quests, re start the college of winterhold quests which I was currently on re slay Alduin, re thane myself in every hold. I have a lot of work cut out for me this new year lol. Bethesda, hear my prayer, please fix this marriage system, its my b-day(seriously it is) its the least you could do lol. But seriously, if only I could make a decent looking nord without facial hair then it would be so worth it, it just svcks that without facial hair he looks like hamburger meat face guy.

You can remarry. Go to this link and scroll down toward the bottom. There are instructions for divorce and how to reset for marriage options.

http://elderscrolls.wikia.com/wiki/Marriage

Thats pc instructions, im on console lol. And my first wife died, I have followed those rules and nada. lol

Serves you right for not being man enough to protect your wife. I don't think you deserve to be married again!!!

Id like to see you face 2 ancient dragons in the middle of a fight between spell flinging necromancers and conjurers while a giant runs in to swing at you and have your wife/companion live through the magic slingers plus the burns of fire. Curse you random events and your ill timing.

Traditionally, marriage was for life. The idea of divorce is very recent.

Traditionally, marriage was an arrangement between families, and very much a business arrangement. The idea of marrying for romantic love is very recent.

For role playing in this type of setting, it would be rather odd to allow divorce.

It's a good idea to keep many saves, particularly one for each level up. That way you can start back at an earlier save if anything happens you don't like or, heaven forbid, your save gets corrupted.

That's the exact reason I keep my wife in the house. I don't want her running off and getting killed

So you can remarry on the PC version? Sweet.

Nice.
have a FishyStick

I have a save like right before she died, but that was 18 lvls and like 200 quests ago. Id rather start over. lol Also your facts are very true.