ok so i married camilla valerius very early in the game, and i couldn't have been any higher than level 10. after the wedding, i told her to move in with me in my house in whiterun and she said ok. a couple days past and then a couple more, and eventually i realized it was bugged and that she probably just disappeared from the game and that i would never be able to re-marry. however, i was walking around the whiterun stables one day and noticed a dead body on the ground. i went over to it and realized it was none other than camilla valerius. i'm now level 51 and definitely do not want to reload the game. i have heard about a courier giving you a last will and testament sort of thing after your wife dies but i haven't gotten it and i'm assuming she's been dead for quite some time and was wondering if it is true, and whether or not i can get remarried after i receive this letter.

any help would be much appreciated.

EDIT: i play on the 360

You can not get re-married, unless you're on the PC, where you can use console commands.

Just try getting remarried. When I need help, I make sure that there is no alternative, and you stated one. If it doesn't work, then come back and see if we can help.

Welcome. Re-marriage is not an option unless youre on PC. Sorry.