Your level 81 man! start a new game already! theres 10 races to choose from with a whole ton of different features like beards and so on.
I cant imagine sticking with one character all the way to level 81.
Ive got over 10 characters and 500 hours done on skyrim and i havent even got one to level 50(though i do have one at level 49 and a half.) I either get bored with my character or i get to the point where the only way i can continue playing with my dude is by using skills that arent part of my guys class or whatever.
For example, my swordmaster who uses light armor, one handed, block (no shield but got it level 100 anyway cus its still badass), sneak, lockpick, speech, the only way i can keep leveling him up is by taking on a skill like destruction or whatever but that doesnt fit my dudes persona. Not to mention i already finished the main quest and companions with him, i dont want to take my good character and do the evil dark brotherhood or thieves guild, just doesnt make sense.
Once you get to the point where you got nowhere to spend any perks on, then your character is basically done. Theres no point in continuing an RPG when you dont advance anymore. Then its not an rpg, then its just banjo kazooie...
This is my 3rd playthrough, the first as a mage. I haven't completed a single misc. mission or sidemission or any questline mission. I just know the tricks to level up quickly with each skill.
Also, I wish I had this game on PC. So many awesome mods available.

By the way, I just left one skill at level 20ish so I can't mess myself over on the Wolf Queen Awakened. But in essence I can level that up to 100 in less than two minutes when needed.